HOW TO BECOME A GOOD HUMAN BEING..🥀🥀

Javeria Sheikh
6 min readJan 18, 2022

In today’s world, it is important to be a good human being. If you won’t become a good person no one will love you, no one will trust you, no one will like to talk to you. If you become a good person you can change this world with your goodness.

By following these few things, you can be a good human being easily :

*Be Kind and Helpful To Others:

First of all, to become good human beings, we have to be kind and generous to others. Be kind to humans, animals as well as with nature or the surrounding environment. Smile delightfully while looking at others. Always be there to help others, but don’t put yourself in any danger to help others. To become a good human being you would have to be dependable, caring, helpful. By seeing your flexible attitude people can depend on you for help in their difficult times. They will always remember you to help out them, whenever they will be in difficult circumstances.

“Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstandings, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate”

(By Albert Schweitzer)

*Let Go Of Anger:

To become a good human being, let go of your anger. If someone did anything wrong with you mistakenly don’t become angry with them, they didn’t intentionally do that to you. If someone deliberately hurt or cheat you forgive them also because unlike them, you are a man with high character, also you have a kind heart. Learn how to control your anger so that you can become the strongest person in the world. According to the Prophet of Islam:

“A strong man is not the one who tramples his opponents. But, a strong person is the one who controls himself when he is angry.”

(By HAZRAT MUHAMMAD Peace Be Upon Him)

*Be Honest:

In this world full of deception, make yourself honest to others. Because honesty is much easier than deception. If you tell a lie to someone whether it is small or big it will come in front of that person sooner or later and then you will be embarrassed about that lie. And once you break someone’s trust, it’s difficult to get it back. To cover one lie you tell hundred more lies and then mostly forget about the details of those lies. Instead of telling thousands of lies, you can be honest to others so that you don’t have to keep a diary with you to note every single detail of thousand lies.

“Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom.”

(By Thomas Jefferson)

*Educate Yourself:

It is important to educate yourself to become a good person. Because if you don’t educate yourself, you don’t know how to react according to the situations and circumstances. You don’t get the manners to behave like a decent person if you don’t learn about it. You don’t know about the precautions if get into trouble. Educate yourself about manners, about good deeds, about precautions, about how to save yourself or someone else from danger, about modern things and techniques to stay along with the rapidly changing and the upgrading world, and about other several things.

“Once you educate yourself, you’re left with choices.”

(By Yvon Chouinard)

*Practice Forgiveness:

Forgiveness is the internal process of letting go of thoughts of resentment, bitterness, need of vengeance, and retribution toward someone who we believe has wronged us including ourselves. The most difficult thing in this world is to forgive someone for their mistakes and wrongdoings. But to live peacefully you have to learn about forgiveness. When you start forgiving others for their wrongdoings, it will increase your value and respect in their sight and your heart will automatically fill with inner peace and you will start living your life peacefully, comfortably, and enjoyably.

“We think that forgiveness is a weakness, but it’s absolutely not. It takes a very strong person to forgive”

(By T. D. Jakes)

*Be Respectful:

To become a good human being, it is necessary to become respectful to others first. Always respect others’ opinions, ideas, suggestions, work, efforts, hard-working, feeling, purposes, etc etc. As a good human being, it is your first duty to respect others and also consider them as human beings. Always listen to them carefully and pay attention to them. Whether their thinking, attitude, and suggestions don’t match yours, maybe they are not so efficient like you, maybe they are much more efficient than you, don’t compare them with yourself and also don’t compare yourself with others. Every person has his point of view and way of thinking about this world. If you give respect to others it will increase your value and respect in their eyes.

“Respect is a two-way street, if you want to get it, you’ve got to give it.”

(By R.G. Risch)

*Always Have Positive Attitude:

While becoming a good human being, always have a positive attitude about things, humans, and circumstances. To have a positive attitude towards others surround yourself with positive people, fill your mind with positive thoughts, be nice to others, remember that no one owes you anything, stop complaining, don’t rely on an outside source of positivity. Always try to look bright side of things. Get pleasure out of the simple things in life. Laughter is one of the most powerful mood enhancers. Allow yourself to laugh, laughing with people is different than laughing at them. Never joke about others to get a laugh at their expense. Do something that will help others. This will give you a sense of fulfillment and make you feel happy inside. Spread happiness and love for others. Everyone deserves love and happiness. Don’t spread negativity.

“When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.”

(By Shannon L. Alder)

*Save the Environment:

As a good human being, you should save the environment from every bad thing. You should save the plants as they provide us with many important things to live in such as food, oxygen, herbs for medicines, etc. You should save the environment from pollutions. Don’t throw garbage in streets, parks, places for sightseeing, and entertainment. You should keep these places as clean as you keep your house clean. Good human beings also save the environment and surroundings from bad habits. You should try not to promote or motivate bad habits just like smoking, drug dealing, gambling, rapes, abuses, murders, drinking alcoholic beverages, and many other things. If you don’t protect your environment from these bad things, one day you will unknowingly create problems for everyone in the future.

“Sooner or later, we will have to recognize that the Earth has rights, too, to live without pollution. What mankind must know is that human beings cannot live without Mother Earth, but the planet can live without humans.”

(By Evo Morale)

*Always have good intentions for others:

Good human beings always keep good intentions for others. To become a good human being, you also should have good intentions for others. Just as you want the best thing for yourself, so also expect the best thing for others. Don’t betray them. Don’t expect anything bad for them because maybe that bad thing will ruin their life. Don’t become jealous of their happiness or success. Don’t be jealous of their happiness or success. If you are not happy with their happiness or success, there will be no one with you to celebrate your moments of happiness and success.

“When our actions are based on good intentions, our soul has no regrets.”

(By Anthony Douglas Wiliams)

*Be The Change:

To bring change in the world, it is necessary to change ourselves first. You can not change anything by doing nothing. As good human beings, it’s our responsibility to make this world a fascinating place to live. To change this world, first, you should improve yourself and try to become a better person every day. When you improve yourself day by day you could change anything with your fantastic and positive attitude.

“Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.”

(By George Bernard Shaw)

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